The 11th Principle: Consent
In our community, consent is not just a courtesy—it is the foundation of our culture and the key to a safe, thriving environment.
What is Consent?
Consent is a clear, voluntary, and enthusiastic agreement to engage in a specific interaction. Whether it’s a hug, a photograph, or a deeper personal connection, boundaries are sacred.
At BBB, we believe that every participant has the absolute right to control their own body, personal space, and emotional boundaries at all times.
How Consent Works (F.R.I.E.S.)
📸 In Photography & Media
Always ask before you click. People come to BBB to express themselves freely, and they may not want that recorded. Respect the “No” and always offer to show the photo and delete it if requested.
🫂 In Physical Contact
Ask before you hug! A simple “Can I give you a hug?” or “Are you a hugger?” creates a respectful connection. Some people may prefer a high-five or just a warm smile.
✨ Holding the Space
If you see an interaction that looks non-consensual, speak up or find a Hero or Well-Fairy. We are all responsible for keeping the space safe.
Respect the “No”
“Consent is the highest form of respect. By honoring it, we create the radical freedom we all come here to find.”
Some examples of consent negotiation:
